I have always loved Christmas.
I have always loved everything about Christmas. Even with all of the commercialism, I still feel that there is a certain magic in the air during this time of year. I love the endless amount of Christmas music that can be heard from virtually any retail establishment or restaurant, and I adore the constant twinkling of lights and decor that beckons when one steps outside their front door.
I’ve heard people say that Christmas is all about commercialism now, or that it is only for the kids. I have to disagree with both of these statements.
Waiting for Santa
While Christmas is a magical time for children who wait up anxiously hoping to hear the sound of reindeer on the rooftop, it doesn’t mean that the magic dies if and when you find out that your parents had a hand in setting out the “Santa” toys. Okay, I confess. There is still a part of me that has that twinge of hope that Santa will stop my house every Christmas Eve. Yeah, don’t judge me. At least I’m honest. 😉 It’s that magical time on Christmas Eve night, when everything is strangely serene and quiet. I walk outside, breathe in the cold, December air and remember the magic.
Don’t sweat it!
Commercialism definitely exists, but it is how we choose to handle it that makes all the difference. I decided several years ago that I wasn’t going to stress about Christmas because I wanted to enjoy the holiday with my children. If that means that friends and relatives in different states don’t get cards or gifts until after Christmas, then so be it. My sanity is more important than stressing about the postal service delivering or not delivering items on time. If I have the time and the funds to send something, I send it. If I have time to bake dozens of cookies for a party one year, then I will. If not, I assure you that this will not be the cause of the apocalypse.
A few quick tips
If you find yourself getting stressed due to the crowds, or because you haven’t yet mailed that gift, stop and take a deep breath. It will be okay. Most likely your relative will forgive you for getting the gift to them a bit late. If not, isn’t that their problem, and not yours? I mean come on. Unless it is much-needed oxygen or medication, I’m sure they can live without that sweater for a few more days.
If you choose to drive yourself crazy and HAVE to get everything done because that is how you operate, that is fine too. However, instead of getting frustrated, try to make a game of it and relish in the reason you’re doing it in the first place. ENJOY the Christmas decor and music, and laugh at how crazy the crowds are. Believe me, that can be fun!
Most importantly, remember to enjoy this time with family and friends.
Have a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, or Happy Holiday however you celebrate!
Very well written and said I agree 100%… I love you and wish I could magically come to Paris with you and Scarlett 😘
Nice read! Merry Christmas to you both. 😁
I remembered to mail my mom’s gift in plenty of time for Christmas, so I was very proud of myself! lol! (There’s a first for everything)
That is awesome! 😊
I am hoping Santa stops by my son’s flat in London. I did not buy any presents. Spending our money on experiences, but somehow on Christmas morning … Oh dear.
I know what you mean! We are in Paris for Christmas, and that is our present to each other. 🎁🎄
Exactly what we need this time of year, thanks for the tips!
You’re welcome! Thank you for reading!
Agreed! Remembering what’s really important helps reduce the stress.
Yes! Sometimes the easiest answers are right in front of us.
Lovr this! I agree there is something truly magical about Christmas. I find it a time to reflect on the blessings I have received in life. Love your pictures. Are those in your home?
Thank you! There definitely is something magical!
Oh, and thank you! No, those photos are in a restaurant in Madrid. 😊
I agree with all you said, so true! We like to do all things early and then just enjoy the surrounding of lights, music, even the mall without shopping, ha!! We just enjoy the Season of Christmas! Great read… and Merry Christmas!
I love going to the mall during the Christmas season to just look around and enjoy the decorations and the music!
Christmas is an amazing time and the blessing of family should surpass every other.
Definitely! I hope you had a very merry Christmas!
This is great. My last blog post also talks about how to stress less during the holidays!
Thank you! I hope you had a wonderful holiday!